You like a guy but he has no idea. You don’t want to make the first move, but you do want to let him know that the light is green. How can you send signals to your crush that you’re interested in taking things to the next level? The answer is simple.
Hi, I’m Amy North, Youtube’s favorite love and dating coach. Falling in love is easy, but building a relationship is hard. I’m going to tell you how to make your crush notice you so that your love story can finally begin.
These are some quick ways to send signals to your crush. You don’t have to make the first move for these to work. You don’t have to be a supermodel or even be particularly confident. You just have to build a pattern of behaviour that will give him the subconscious idea that he should spend more time getting to know you. It’s simple psychology. On to my first tip:
Single him out
We all know the cliche that boys pull girls’ pigtails because they like them. This dynamic is still at play in adult relationships. Some friendly teasing is a great way to flirt with any guy. Teasing accomplishes a few things. It shows him that you have a sense of humour, that you don’t take life too seriously. And most importantly, it lets him know that you’re comfortable around him.
It doesn’t matter how lame or stupid your jokes about him are. He’ll notice you noticing him and that will make him see you in a different light.
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Say his name
This is an old tip used by politicians and salespeople: using someone’s name in conversation actually makes you more memorable and seem like you care. This can be helpful no matter how short your interactions are. It’ll make you stick in his mind. Do it right and he’ll be saying YOUR name in no time.
Point with your feet
This is a great tip if you’re shy or not ready to talk to him just yet. You can use body language to tip him off even if he’s all the way across the room. All you need to do is point your feet in his direction. Sounds pretty silly, right? Well scientists and body language experts disagree. They say that people subconsciously point their toes in the direction of those they’re interested in approaching and talking to. For this reason, pointing your toes at him can send subliminal signals that you’re interested in him. And while you’re at it, take a look at where his feet are pointed. It’s time for some toe-to-toe contact!
Get close
Speaking of making contact...physical proximity is key. He probably makes you nervous and so you avoid getting too close, right? Then how is he supposed to have any idea that you like him? Physical proximity is the number one way to show physical attraction. Make some excuse to get close to him. When you’re talking, take a step closer.
Laugh at his jokes
If you’re watching this video then chances are your crush makes you nervous. When we’re nervous, things like laughing, smiling and eye contact can easily go right out the window. Make an effort to relax and have fun when you’re around him. Laughing at his jokes is a great way to show that you not only like to have fun, but you think he’s funny. The truth is that men like women who make them feel funny and interesting.
Compliment him
Everyone likes a compliment, even if they don’t know how to take it. The truth is that any sort of positive praise will make a guy more interested. Most men like women who pump their tires a little. Whether this means congratulating him on a great presentation at work or saying you like his shoes, compliments go a long way. It says “I notice you and I like what I see.”
Wear Red
Psychological research shows that men are more attracted to women when they wear the color red. Some say it’s because of the cultural connection between romance and the color red: think Valentine’s day. Others say that it’s due to biological factors. Namely that when mammals are ovulating, the increased flow of blood causes certain body parts to redden. Either way, red has been proven to make men more interested in women, so use that to your advantage. Red lipstick, red nail polish, or red clothing are a great place to start when you’re trying to send him signals.
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