Get on a call with 1 of our lead strategists for a free breakthrough session ▶▶▶ Some people want a relationship to fill an internal emptiness. They think sex or companionship will solve their problems. I think that's the unhealthiest reason to find someone. If you don't have a high level of self esteem or if you look at yourself in the mirror, and aren't happy with the person looking back. Then you have no business trying to consolidate in someone. That relationship will be doomed from the start. You can't not love yourself and expect a relationship to make it all better.
The healthy way. (This is at least how I did it)
Become comfortable with your own insecurities.
Know your good values inside out.
Don't care about the opinions of others.
Continuously work on yourself.
Once you've done this and you're genuinely happy with yourself. Once you've found a sense of self love. That's when you're ready to find someone else. A relationship isn't the main course. It needs to be a side dish to compliment your already complete main course.
TL;DR
Your life should be awesome as is, but it would be nice to have someone to share it with. You shouldn't see a relationship as a cure for not loving yourself. Yes having someone motivates you to be better, but it won't cure not being happy with yourself. But hey while I have you here, want more personalized help? Jump on a free breakthrough session call
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